She is a she.
But is it okay for men to give attention to other women other then his female partner?
I'm working on my spec script. A 2020 update of The Bodyguard, the Firefighter. A plays-by-his-own-rules ex-firefighter haunted by his past (failed to save a kid and tried to drown his guilt in whisky), goes to Malibu as a last resort-a private firefighter to a Hollywood power couple. Her husband is more interested in his career than her. They grow closer as she watches him clear dangerous brush/tinder around the house as the sun glistens off his sweaty, ripped bod. He's interested too, but lives by a code and keeps his distance. He teaches their oldest how to safely handle a chainsaw.